Monday, February 22, 2021 14:00 PM (GMT + 7)
Now it’s 2021 and still many people think so. That a man cannot support his wife is cowardly. I am such a coward.
My wife insisted that I follow her sister. (Illustration)
My income is also called gentle village. There is no talent at all. I have just worked as a curtain maker cum Grab, shipper. Even when my wife gave birth to my first child, I even posted a job as a toilet cleaner.
My management degree doesn’t make any sense. Days ago kept dreaming of studying as a director. Working with all kinds of jobs, I just hope to earn any money or that. Get married because she missed the vote. Although I said before that you are not economically enough to take care of your family.
Well, God thinks it’s good, I get married when my income is less than 10 million / month. I have found all kinds of jobs to increase my income and work day and night to get 18-20 million / month. Surface salt borrowed money from relatives and friends to buy a small house less than 15m2 deep in the alley. Called a place to shield the rain from the sun.
After 4 years have not yet paid off the debt. Yet the wife gave birth to another child. Still I used contraception but every time. I was so panicked, so after my wife got pregnant with the second child, I went to have a vasectomy.
My wife has given birth continuously for 3 years and 2 children, so she cannot work. Economic alone I bear. I do my best and it only lasts 24 hours a day.
Seeing that my wife was at home and was free, when the second child was a bit strong, I let her go to the nursery all and asked her to work to help her husband. Any loan to buy a Tet house makes me escape because the creditor comes to claim it. My wife is carefree, a little bit online to buy things.
Toàn bought things because it was cute and eye-catching. That was the case with my wife’s family, so my brother-in-law was a little bit over in asking for money to play games. I have recovered the money, told me to manage it because I had run out of money until the middle of the month.
Money for children, interest from debts, daily living expenses, electricity and water … I kept spinning in all kinds of accounts. Not a stingy person, but I’m also a miser.
Many times, losing 50,000 dong, also regretted breaking the intestines and bewildered all day. I think I can still handle it if my wife doesn’t insist on me to follow her sister. Following her sister, the income will reach 50 million- 100 million in the blink of an eye. But the possibility of being caught by the police and entangled in the labor circle is also very high.
Her sister specializes in selling fake goods. I thought of my 2 children, so I firmly said no. So she scolded me: Men who can’t afford the money for their wives are cowards.
In her eyes, a woman only has to give birth and take care of her family. Men have to worry about economics. That I was poor and cowardly. Her sister has been working for 4-5 years. Just working for a few years to make money to support his wife and children is so cowardly?
Am I a coward man? Sometimes poverty makes me just want to die to spare. But looking at the two children but couldn’t help but leave them.
My wife does not want to go to work and work hard at home thinking of enough dishes, arranging flowers, buying sexy pajamas. Husband was tired but cursed, jealous that there must be a lover outside.
I always work very hard to visit my mother-in-law because my mother-in-law keeps seeing her daughter-in-law going 30km back to visit her, and the chicken buys all the food to treat her. But my parents don’t have a lot of money.
The pension of 2 people only enough 2 food. But in the afternoon, the daughter-in-law is unmatched, only worried about the daughter-in-law suffering, the daughter-in-law is hungry. The daughter-in-law is also very fond of her mother-in-law, so every time she comes to buy things for her mother-in-law (she loses some money in her husband’s wallet).
Really, I don’t know what to do with a wife like this. I can’t quit because my wife also loves me, she is also wholehearted for the children. But if I continued to live, I really did not stress because I was poor, so I would also stress because the wife and children of the soldiers calculated housework like this.
Sometimes, to be honest, if I keep this situation like this, I will be able to work as a boy so that I can have enough money to take care of my family. Now, if anyone invites me to love me to work, the monthly salary is not enough.
What but every month my family needs at least 20 million to survive. Where to get jobs 20-25 million now? Especially what I have is just hard work, hard work. She doesn’t have a job in geese even though she has a decent university degree.
Men like me are not very cowardly?
After this, I realized that pampering my wife must also have a degree and a limit, otherwise she will ride her head …
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